Alanz Eyes

Handling her male friends

Add comment April 23rd, 2006

One of the biggest issues many men have is their girlfriend or partner having friendships with other men. Why is this? It’s because men know what other men are like.

Most men think with their small head rather than their big head, and their sex drive influences their relationships. (Read my article on platonic relationships for more information on this.) If a man finds a woman sexually attractive, he will often do what he can to see how far he can go. He’ll flirt and put on his best behaviour. He’ll be an ‘extra special friend’ to the woman he’s attracted to, just in case she might be attracted to him as a result of his efforts.
In base terms - and from the man’s perspective - there’s always a mating ritual going on, even if the subject of the ritual is someone else’s mate.

Are you a wimp around women?

Add comment April 23rd, 2006

Why do so many men act like wimps around women?There’s a lot of men in this world who act like absolute wimps around women (maybe you’re one of them?). Why do they do this? Mainly for the simple reason that they believe that by being nice, they’ll be liked by the woman they’re interested in.
Most of these men haven’t learnt or understood that it’s more important to make a woman be attracted to them, than to make her like them. ‘Attraction’ creates chemistry which leads onto intimate relationships, while ‘like’ creates friendships or nothing at all.