Alanz Eyes

Whatever you want

Add comment August 7th, 2005

It was about 10 years ago, while I was in Canberra. This was before dating websites were all the rage. It was when Netscape 3 was popular, and Internet Explorer was hardly heard of. ICQ and IRC were the chat programs of choice. But back then, I had only just started using the internet. I met this woman via a newspaper 'phone dating' service.

Dating For Men

Add comment July 4th, 2005

I had found that I can create a number of different blogs, all linked to a single account. As a result of this discovery, I started doing this journal after I'd setup the political blog, and now I've completed Dating For Men. This is my 3rd blog using this blogger.com system.

Dating For Men is going to be where I place my articles and comments aimed at men who need help understanding their role in relationships, and understanding more of what women want and need. It's from my point of view, and is focused on using my own experiences and knowledge rather than the textbook stuff that many other websites use.

Rejected Again

Add comment July 4th, 2005

It doesn't matter how good looking you are, or how confident you are, or how funny you are, or how much you prepare. You will always be rejected by someone. There's a saying: "you can't please everyone all the time". And neither can you please all the women all the time.

So don't try. Accept that there's going to be some women you're not going to please, and who will reject you.

Dating update

Add comment November 18th, 2004

What a nice day it is today. The weather is great, and I'm in a great mood. I just got back from lunch with the girl I met a couple weeks ago, and it was a nice time. First, she was 20 mins late, but instead of worrying about that, I was enjoying the weather and watching the people go by. At least she phoned saying she was having a problem finding a carpark. So she turns up wearing a short skirt, and looking very nice. We went to lunch at the same food place we went to last time (mental note: choose somewhere different next time), and she was a lot more comfortable this time around. Flirting was still high on the agenda, and she ended up getting me to feel how strong the muscles in her legs were. Uh huh.

A new job

Add comment November 9th, 2004

The Client Relationship Manager role is moving along nicely. I'm designing it, defining it, and will be doing it. It's also going to involve travel and incentive bonuses based on increased revenue. Woohoo!

It's an exciting feeling to be creating my own management job in one of the largest companies in the country. Wow.

Changes

Add comment November 4th, 2004

1) I'm working on creating a new role at work. I've seen a need in the company for a Client Relationship Manager, someone who attends to the happiness of the client above and beyond just getting money out of them. I've approached my managers with this perception of how to add value to what we offer our clients, and coincidentally (Hah! No such thing as coincidences! "Coincidence is God's way of remaining anonymous.") they've been talking amongst themselves about exactly that. So they talk about it, and then I come along and tell them how I see a need in the company, and I know of how to 'fix it'.

Dating update

Add comment October 18th, 2004

Now that I'm single again and not seeing anyone else at all, I've decided to remain this way for a while. I'm not going to go looking for any relationships with any women for a while. Instead, I'm just going to have a good time with doing my own thing.

If any women feel like joining me for a good time along the way, then that'll be fine but I won't be going out looking for it.

I think that after the ending of every relationship that's significant, it's good to just take time out, think about things, do your own thing without someone else being present or sharing your time with.